U komšiluku ima jedna djevojčica koja ima dva zamišljena prijatelja.

Iz ugla tradicionalne psihologije, zamišljeni prijatelj (ili prijatelji) se objašnjava kao plod djetetove mašte. Ja sam negdje pročitao (pokušavam se sjetiti gdje), da je zamišljeni prijatelj više od toga.

Dakle, da li imate iskustva sa ovim slučajem i kakva su vaša mišljenja? Može li to biti neko ko komunicira sa djetetom s "one strane", neki entitet ili je ipak sve u "glavi"?

a, da li si ti pricao sa njom? jesi li je pitao kako se cesto pojavljuju zamisljenji prijatelji, o cemu pricaju, kako su obuceni?...
djeca obicno ne znaju lagati, ali je tesko bilo sta zakljuciti bez razgovora sa djevojcicom.

Po nekim istraživanjima koja su sproveli psiholozi navodi se da se zamišljeni prijatelj/prijatelji najčešće pojavljuju između treće i pete godine života. Kod većine djece on predstavlja neku normalnu fazu razvoja u toku koje vježbaju socijalne vještine istovremeno upoznajući samog sebe... I vremenom to prerastu, mada neka djeca nastavljaju igru i nakon polaska u OŠ. Mislim da sam čitala da se to ne smatra poremećajem ukoliko se takvo stanje ne oduži (samo ne znam do kad, gledaću da provjerim), a bitan pokazatelj je i to da li dijete komunicira i druži se i sa ostalom djecom... A ti reče da neće sa svakim da priča..se to odnosi i na drugu djecu? I koliko ima godina? Da nije bilo nekih bitnih promjena u porodičnom okruženju, znaš ono - slažu li se, da li je dobila malog brata ili sestru...? Tada bi pomoću prijatelja nastojala to da prihvati ili možda samo da privuče pažnju.. Ili je to ipak nešto drugo Pokušaj popričati sa njom pa nam javi

Evo, malo sam pročeprkao po netu u potrazi za različitim mišljenjima.
Naiđoh na jedan slučaj gdje se majka obraća sa pitanjem o svom sinu koji ima zamišljenog prijatelja.
Evo dio texta:

Pitanje:
Ever since my son was old enough to jump up and down in his cot he would wake in the middle of the night giggling and laughing, chatting away. I could look in on him and he would be looking in a certain direction talking or smiling. This used to freak me out a bit but as the years have passed and at the age of five he still talks to people and is always laughing and talking happily, I’m not worried.I’ve also always thought he seemed a lil psychic, knowing things before they happen or knowing someone’s name before he’s told it. Just this year he introduced me to some of his friends and there are times like the 1st time I met them that I truly believe they are there and other times I feel maybe he is making it up – maybe because he thinks I want him to.

I took him to a graveyard the other night and he said he saw 2 people in separate areas. When I asked him what they looked like, he started by telling me some colours like he said the lady was blue I don’t know what to think of all this. I believe he has definitely seen things that no one else can. Can you tell me if these are imaginary friends or if he truly has a gift and if so is there anything I should be aware of, will he always be safe in communicating with spirits or is there a danger in it? Very curious mum.

Odgovor:
What an amazing child! My take on “imaginary” friends is that they are age-specific Spirit guides, and many children have them. The nature of your son’s connection to these Spirits is important to know about, and the entire concept of reincarnation and karmic responsibility should be understood and embraced by the both of you. Don’t worry – it’s all good!

Before we’re all born, our Souls make agreements with the significant others in our future incarnations, to be available for each other depending on what level of karmic opportunities we need to impart on each other, whether they are close friends, family members, future lovers, teachers, etc. Your Soul, or higher self, communicated with his spiritual entity to be borne from you, and that you would be his mother, care-taker, and nurturer. Of course, this was all happening on unseen levels, and you may not remember any actual conversation along these lines, and this speaks to the sacred amnesia our limited human minds are innately famous for.

If you’ve ever asked yourself “Why am I here?”, you’ve already acknowledged that this amnesia energetic exists, and that you want to remember. Good job!

Plato tells of this in his “Republic,” in the story of the soldier Er, who returned from the dead with his memory of the other side intact. In this metaphorical tale, before Souls could return to the Earth plane, they would have to drink from the “well of forgetfulness,” and Er neglected to do so.

It seems that some people must have slugged down a few dozen liters from the well, and these acquaintances would vehemently argue that there is no such thing as an after-life. I’m thinking that your son only took a sip.

The veil is very thin for your son, and the best way to maneuver this is by not being afraid of it. His Soul chose for him to have this strong connection to the other side, and in many ways your higher self – as care-giver for this gifted child – did as well. The Spirit world always – always! – knows what is in our best interest, so it would be in both of your best interests to learn how to love his abilities.

Unfortunately, too many parents think that imaginary friends are a psychological defect at best, or an “evil” thing at worst. They’ll quite often try to literally beat it out of them, and this can only lead to a deep emotional and spiritual wounding, a life-long depression, and psychoses of various severity.

There are an increasing number of children like your son being born these days, and trust me, we at globalpsychics have heard from parents all over the world with similar stories such as yours. For some reason(!), there seems to be a cluster of such stories coming out of Australia, Indonesia, and other locations south of the Equator. These Souls are the reincarnations of the great minds from the past: inventors, scholars, artists, poets, magicians – and they’re all back to help the collective psyche heal itself and the planet. The primary thing they all need are loving and nurturing parents, as well as supportive communities – people that understand them and their gifts.

Again, the key is a loving and supportive environment. This will enable him to learn how to trust in Spirit – his own higher self. Love is the essential ingredient because within the sphere of an unconditional love for himself and his abilities, nothing bad or “evil” can come through. Within that unconditional love, direct communication with his higher self is possible, and his past-life as Leonardo DaVinci or Thomas Edison can come through, and they can show him that new invention they were working on before they made their transitions – the one that will put the fossil fuel industry out of business forever. Of course, we could always use a better paper clip as well!

As he enters school, it would be a good idea to tell him that other people don’t have his gift, and that he should be careful not to tell anyone of his abilities. His guides might lead him to a classmate with similar abilities, and you might be able to connect with the parents of his friends. This could be the beginning of a support group to let you know that you are not alone.

It sounds to me like you have a very gifted son, I wouldn’t put it off as imaginary as he has been stating the same things for such a long time.

Encourage him, ask him questions about who he sees, names descriptions etc. I have a feeling many of them are family that have passed on into spirit.

Children are so very in tune and sensitive to the spirit world, and it is wonderful if we can encourage that in them. I would try and find him a mentor though, someone who can work and help him develop, and to be able to turn it off when needed. But as far as any danger no hun not at all. Blessings Jody

I most certainly would have to say that yes your son is in fact psychic and I believe with him being so young that he will decide later on in life whether or not he want to continue with his gifts or choose not to use them. I have to say also I feel very strongly your son is not seeing imaginary friends….what your son is seeing I again feel very strongly is spirit, I also feel your son is clairvoyant which is clear seeing…. which also means that your son can see spirit clearly…

I would like to suggest to you that you try not to make a big issue out of it with your son….let your son continue on with his gifts (I know it scared you at first but please believe me your son is truly blessed)……spirit and angels never ever let us down and always are there for us….

The lady your son told you he seen (at the graveyard and in blue) I feel this was a sign to your son from the angels and spirit that he is communicating with them….. also that your son is very well protected too….I am seeing blue all around both yourself and your son so also please know you are protected too.

Izvor

Evo slučajno naletih na ovu temu.
Moj sin je imao zamišljenog prijatelja. Kad bi se sam igrao u sobi, uvijek je pričao s njim. Ja se nisam zabrinjavala zbog toga, djeca to rade ( a i odrasli ali to kriju ). Zanimljvo je to što je njegov prijatelj imao ime i prezime. Zvao se...Luka Nižetić . Ali nije imao veze sa pjevačem, jer kad bi luka bio na tv,moj sin ga nije uopće registrirao. Ali događale su se druge stvari. Mali bi uveče, u krevetu pričao šta ga je Luka naučio: da svemir nema kraj, da zmije naočarke žive pored piramida, da anđeli paze na nas, da u svemiru žive vanzemaljci i da su neki prijateljski raspoloženi a neki baš i ne, da moramo štedit vodu jer će ribice ostat bez nje...i još puno stvari, ni ne sjetim se više. Ali nije baš puno pričao o njemu i nisam stekla dojam da je luka uvijek kraj njega. Vremenom, Luka se sve rjeđe i rjeđe pojavljivao i nestao je prije, otprilike godinu dana, kada smo otišli na jedno duže putovanje.
Jučer sam nabasala na ovu temu i sjetila sam se Luke. Pitam maloga gdje je Luka, a on me blijedo gleda, uopće ga se ne sjeća . Mali sad ima skoro šest godina. Meni je čak nekako i žao zbog toga . Moram reći, dok je Luka bio tu, mali nije išao u vrtić , ali imao je društvo za igru. Tko ga je sve ono naučio, ja pojma nemam...
lp

Zanimljiva prica.
Ako je istinita,
moguce da je pod utjecajem okoline, medija, TV-a i ostalih zatupljujucih "alata" jednostavno izgubio dodir sa drigom realnoscu ili drugom stranom, kako god da je nazovem...

Ma sve je istina...I ja mislim kao i ti da je zbog TV-a i ostalog njegov prijatelj otišao. Žao mi je zbog toga,ali to se kad tad trebalo dogoditi. Rijetko djeca zadrže te svoje prijatelje.

O, mnoga djeca imaju "zamišljenog" prijatelja! To je dosta čest slučaj!

Možda se radi o mašti, ali moguće je i da djeca komuniciraju sa nekim nematerijalnim entitetom. Zašto ne, kad su ionako entiteti uvijek tu, nalaze se među nama, prolaze kroz zidove, nemaju materijalna ograničenja... tako je to na 4D.

Uglavnom, djeca vole priče i misaone "vježbe", fantazirati, izmišljavati... pa tako eksperimentiraju sa ovim svijetom u koji su nedavno došla... to je prirodno.

Dakle, bilo da se radi o 4D "frendu" ili samo izmišljeni slučaj - to je normalno.

Prijateljica mi je pričala da je ona imala jednog takvog prijatelja,ali su je roditelji "sputavali" u toj komunikaciji, čak su je i kažnjavali zbog toga jer su mislili...ne znam ni ja šta. Tek poslije kao odrasla i kad je sama postala majka došla joj je u ruke knjiga u kojoj su priče ljudi koji su te prijatelje zadržali i kad su odrasli. Bilo joj je žao što i ona nije zadržala svoga "anđela". Zato je i meni žao zbog mog malog, ali tako je ....

E zaboravih pitati...ima li to možda veze s tim što je djeci do 3., 4. godine mozak u alfa stanju?

Lorna Byrne
ANĐELI U MOJOJ KOSI

Tnx!

Jesi li uspio propitati išta svoju malu susjedu
Zanima me šta mala kaže.
Pozdrav

Nisam.
Nije lako to učiniti jer ja to dijete ne viđam skoro nikada, a ne mogu tek tako banuti na vrata i tražiti da pričam sa njom. Nezgodno je.
Ako se sretnemo ili ako naletim na slično dijete sigurno neću propustiti priliku.
Do tada čekam.

Neko ima izmisljene prijatelje, a neko neprijatelje.

Moja kćerka je sa 3 godine imala zamišlenog prijatelja , zvao se Kaj Laj , ona ga tako zvala.Po njenom opisu on je imao zelenu kosu i koliko se sećam za sve kvarove u kući bio je kriv on, ali ona ga zamoli da kvar otkloni i zaista sve bude ok , ili je znao da zaturi stvari..i slične gluposti je pravio , mi smo bili ubeđeni da to ona pravi gluposti , ona je uporno odbijala i sve pripisivala njemu , pri tome ga je živo opisivala .Ona sada ima 19 godina i još ga se seća .. )sada joj je to sve smešno , ali tvrdi da je postojao !

Malci su opasni. Samo što su premali da bi nama na naš način objasnili šta vide.
Jer ako vide auru, zašto ne i čudovišta iz ormara?
A to su počeci učenja, upijanja svijeta oko sebe. I onda mi odredimo shemu po kojoj se moraju ponašati i koju stranu mozga upotrebljavati. Globalno zatupljenje.